As I’ve worked with folks over the past few years, two themes in my work keep getting clearer – one is the fact that I have these intuitive and mental insights, an ability to see into folks’ issues and find the right words, the right perspective, the next layer to help folks move forward in a loving way.   I can see past the trauma, past the emotion, to the complete wholeness of the person and what happens is that then the other person begins to re-connect with their own sense of wholeness.  It’s a pretty amazing process and I’m absolutely humbled by it.  And it’s a combination of EFT, who I am, and who my clients are that allows that to happen.  Not every EFT practitioner has the same effect and result.  We each have a piece we contribute to the whole pie.

The other theme that’s getting clear, and is tied to the first, is I’m becoming more and more aware of my unwavering commitment to help folks discover and connect with their uniqueness, finding their own inner authority and strength and gifts.    EFT is part of this process but I’m finding that I also need to draw on other models.  I was using the Enneagram but since discovering Human Design, I am using that more and more instead.

What this means for you is that I now will be sharing about design as I write and if you work with me one-on-one, I’ll often draw on your human design to inform our session, just as I draw on family constellations when it’s appropriate.  

Here’s some feedback from a beautiful client of mine that explains and the power of design combined with EFT.  

There is an immense family loyalty and love that shows up in our behavior -- the system desires to be whole and each of us will do our part to illuminate that wholeness. When we start to look at "undesirable" behavior and see the underlying love that is there, everything changes. When we can look at the family secrets with love, the family system transforms. When we can include those who have been excluded, the energy of love begins to flow freely. When we can accept our family's fate with love and honor and respect and see the nobility of the past but not despair in the pain, we open ourselves up to taking our rightful place as the descendant of our ancestors. When we can accept and thank our parents for giving us the one gift that no one else can - the gift of life, we step more fully into who we are.

My current experience of Richard Rudd's work with the Gene Keys is all about going into the shadows and finding the gifts.  Our work with the family matrix is built on the very same premise - going into the shadows of our families and finding the gifts.  

So with thanks for our families,

Deborah

Hello friends,

Below is a powerful tapping script that comes from my work with the family matrix and EFT.  Please do leave questions and comments -- it's very useful to me and others ...

I invite you to expand your concept of family and home for just a bit and see how our hearts still carry our history of many generations .... 

When we choose to leave

The U.S. is known for being somewhat mobile – folks move around the countryfor work, for jobs, to go to school, to follow their dreams, or to find a better life.  The unspoken price of moving around is leaving our families.   In fact, if you look at the energy of the U.S. as a whole,we all left someplace to come here. Whether our parents, ourgrandparents, or generations before, we chose, or were forced to leave, our homeland.

This hidden loss of our homeland can show up in our lives today as an entanglement – basically that means that part of ourenergy is still tied to our ancestor’s homeland and until we can see and name and feel and accept that loss and connection, we won’t fullyfind our places here.